When Saint Francis was praised by his companions he said :”Do not praise me ! If some else would have received the same graces as I did , they could have gotten much further .” 

This can also be turned around : If I would have received the same temptations , difficulties in life , the same family situations , as another person , then it would come to light where would  I stand on the journey  of a blessed life .

Father Csaba 

translated by dr k.e.