Mary is never there when Jesus carries out a remarkable deed: she He multiplies the bread , calms the sick, or brings the dead back to life . But Mary is there when people talk about Jesus that He is unbalanced . The Mother of God is also there on the way to the cross . How good it would be if we would also posses this “Marian” feature : if we would be there where the need is the greatest ! To hold the hand of the one, whose hand is not held by anyone .