Momentarily many things can really hurt, but as the emotions settle , often you yourself cannot quite understand how could something seem to have such a great importance . In the past, every day I made notes as to what upset me a lot and it what was that made me happy. After a while I reread it and crossed out those grievances that were no longer important. At the end of the year I reread it again and there was hardly anything left most of it could have been bagged. If this method is put into practice , at the times of quarrels you already think :” Why should I upset myself on account of this? In a week’s time it won’t really matter.” You learn to get at the heart of the matter.
Father Csaba
translated by dr k.e.
Momentarily many things can really hurt, but as the emotions settle , often you yourself cannot quite understand how could something seem to have such a great importance . In the past, every day I made notes as to what upset me a lot and it what was that made me happy. After a while I reread it and crossed out those grievances that were no longer important. At the end of the year I reread it again and there was hardly anything left most of it could have been bagged. If this method is put into practice , at the times of quarrels you already think :” Why should I upset myself on account of this? In a week’s time it won’t really matter.” You learn to get at the heart of the matter.